I think it is just the years of frustration coming out. Many people -like me - have no one buried in that site and are left to wonder "where are the families of these people?" Yet on here, we hear that at least one doesn't care. That is sad.
And these same families expect others to do things? I would rather believe that the families of these people are gone, out of the area or all dead, too, than to know they are doing nothing to help.