you are right, they are NOT worth it, but in that moment they are your world....people just need enough time to see that....some do ...he didnt....everyone loses....prayers to all involved, Im done on this subject
ahhh, but when its happening to you and in that moment...if you havent been there, dont preach to those that have....its an ugly place to be, betrayed by someone you loved and have it thrown in your face....